Negative feelings, troubling memories, and distressing conversations or situations often have a powerful grip on our emotions. These experiences can trigger anxiety, stress, and fear, and we may find ourselves reliving them mentally, sometimes without even realising it. Understanding why these reactions happen—and how we can change the way they affect us—can be transformative for our emotional and mental well-being. This is where the interplay of psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and self-compassion comes in.
The Role of Epinephrine and Norepinephrine
When we experience stress or anxiety, certain hormones and neurotransmitters play a key role in our body’s response. Epinephrine (also known as adrenaline) and norepinephrine are responsible for many of the physical symptoms associated with anxiety. These chemicals are released by the brain when it perceives a threat, either real or imagined, in order to prepare the body for a "fight-or-flight" response.
This response may include:
- Rapid heartbeat
- Sweating
- Shallow or quick breathing
- Feelings of dread or panic
While these reactions are designed to protect us from danger, they often overreact, especially when triggered by memories, worries about the future, or even minor stressors. In these cases, the brain is using epinephrine and norepinephrine to "remind" us of past dangers, amplifying anxiety and stress, even when there is no immediate threat.
Why do Negative Memories and Emotions Linger?
Our brains are wired to prioritise survival, so they are particularly attuned to storing and recalling negative experiences. From an evolutionary standpoint, it makes sense: remembering harmful situations helps us avoid repeating them. However, in today’s world, where we are not constantly facing life-or-death situations, this survival mechanism often backfires. The brain continues to send stress signals even when there’s no real threat, leading to chronic anxiety or emotional distress.
Negative memories, conversations, or events can get stuck in a loop, reinforcing the brain's tendency to produce epinephrine and norepinephrine in response to imagined or exaggerated threats. The more these memories are triggered, the more our brain associates them with stress, and the harder it becomes to break free from their grip.
Changing the Way We React: The Power of Psychotherapy and Hypnotherapy
While the biological basis of anxiety is important to understand, it's equally important to know that our reactions to these stress hormones can be changed. This is where psychotherapy and hypnotherapy offer profound solutions.
Psychotherapy allows individuals to explore the root causes of their anxiety, helping them identify the patterns and triggers that cause distress. Through various therapeutic techniques, people can learn how to interrupt these patterns and reframe their thoughts. By addressing the underlying emotional baggage attached to negative experiences, we can diminish their power over us.
Hypnotherapy complements psychotherapy by allowing individuals to access their subconscious mind, where many emotional triggers and memories reside. Under the guidance of a trained therapist, (me!) hypnotherapy helps clients reprocess traumatic or distressing memories in a safe, controlled environment. This process helps rewire the brain’s response to these memories, reducing the epinephrine and norepinephrine spikes that normally follow.
Both therapies, when practiced together, offer a holistic approach to healing. They guide individuals in recognising the chemical triggers of anxiety and stress and gradually changing how they respond to them. Over time, this reduces the hold that negative memories and emotions have on the individual’s mind.
The Role of Self-Compassion, Self-Care, and Self-Comfort
In addition to professional therapy, personal self-compassion is an essential element of healing. When we are harsh or critical of ourselves for feeling anxious or stressed, we only intensify those negative emotions. Learning to practice self-compassion—being kind and understanding toward ourselves in moments of distress—helps soothe the mind and reduce anxiety.
### The Brain’s Ability to Heal
Through the combination of psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and self-care, the brain begins to change its relationship with anxiety-inducing chemicals. Over time, the brain stops interpreting certain memories, conversations, or situations as threats, reducing the release of epinephrine and norepinephrine. Instead, the body begins to release more helpful neurotransmitters and hormones, such as serotonin and oxytocin, which promote feelings of calm, safety, and well-being.
This process of healing doesn’t happen overnight, but with persistence and compassion, it is possible to significantly reduce the emotional toll that negative memories and situations have on us.
Final Thoughts
Negative feelings, memories, and situations don’t have to dominate our lives. By understanding the biological processes behind anxiety and using tools like psychotherapy, hypnotherapy, and self-compassion, we can reshape the way we respond to these triggers. Healing is possible when we combine scientific insight with the art of self-care, giving ourselves permission to grow and thrive beyond the pain of the past.

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